My name is WO2 Mark Goodridge serving at 40 Cdo. My late wife Vicki Goodridge a former PO Royal Navy who served 24 year passed away last from Pancreatic Cancer. The last year has been very trying for our three Children, 18, 16 and 15 and myself.
The Forces Children’s Trust offered the week to all three children with the youngest two Charles and Lizzy accepting the offer and had a great time which helped them reflect on their grief.
A Week of Adventure for Bereaved British Armed Services Children: Forces Children’s Trust Outward Bound Experience in the Lake District
The Forces Children’s Trust, a charity dedicated to supporting bereaved children of British Armed service members, recently organised an unforgettable five-day adventure in the heart of the Lake District. The trip, held at the Outward Bound charity centre, was filled with thrilling outdoor activities designed to challenge, inspire, and uplift the children. The experience offered these young participants a chance to bond, build confidence, and enjoy the healing power of nature, all under the compassionate leadership of organizer Denny Wise.
The week-long event featured a variety of exciting activities, from canyoning and kayaking to hiking and swimming in the beautiful, rugged landscape of the Lake District.
Canyoning Challenge
The adventure kicked off with canyoning, an exhilarating activity that took the children through narrow gorges, across fast-moving rivers, and over slippery rock formations. The thrill of leaping into deep pools and sliding down natural rock chutes was a perfect way to get the adrenaline pumping and build camaraderie among the group. The children faced each challenge head-on, supporting each other as they navigated the rugged terrain.
Kayaking on Tranquil Lakes
The following day brought a change of pace with kayaking. The children paddled across one of the district’s serene lakes, enjoying the peaceful beauty of their surroundings. Under expert guidance, they learned how to steer and control their kayaks, with many taking to the water with confidence and enthusiasm. The laughter and splashes echoed across the lake as the group worked together, growing more comfortable with each paddle stroke.
A Wet Hike and Cozy Bothy Stay
True to the Lake District’s famously unpredictable weather, the group set out on a short hike through wet and wild conditions. Despite the rain, spirits remained high as the children trekked through the stunning landscape, encouraged by the promise of an overnight stay at a traditional bothy. The rustic shelter provided a warm and cozy refuge after the day’s hike, and the evening was spent playing games, sharing stories, and strengthening the bonds between the children.
Braving the Cold for a Lake Swim
One of the final challenges of the week was a lake swim, a test of both courage and endurance. The children bravely plunged into the cold waters, swimming with determination under the watchful eye of their instructors. For many, this was a significant personal achievement—overcoming fears and pushing beyond their comfort zones. The sense of accomplishment was palpable as they completed the swim, cheered on by their peers.
A Special Thank You
The Forces Children’s Trust organised this week of adventure to give bereaved children of service members a chance to find joy, connection, and strength in each other and in nature. Denny Wise, who put tremendous effort into planning the event, was instrumental in ensuring that the week was filled with fun, challenge, and support.
Charles and Lizzy, two participants, expressed their gratitude, saying, “Thank you so much for an amazing week! We had the best time ever and learned so much. We’ll never forget it!”
This Outward Bound experience was more than just a week of activities—it was a meaningful opportunity for these children to heal, grow, and create lasting memories in a supportive and encouraging environment. Thanks to the Forces Children’s Trust and the efforts of individuals like Denny Wise, the children were able to experience the outdoors in a way that will stay with them for years to come.
